Our Love Psychics On Love and Romance

Listening and Loving

There is a connection!

by Danielle

“Love for one person, being dissolved in space, may touch many souls.” speaks Anastasiya

“Why should it be that Love is dissolved in Space? What for?” asks Vladimir

“In order to surround a beloved one with the ever lasting Space of Love, so it may stay forever. This is the essence of Love and its predestination.” Anastasiya

Extracted from Book 2 of the Ringing Cedars of Russia series by Vladimir Megre - watch for more coming from this amazing lady and her associates.

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Loving means listening with your heart… creating that Space of Love that contains the power to dissolve differences, conquer fears and heal old pains.

Consider the nature of true, pure love…

Most of us associate romance, attraction, excitement, with being in love – the heart palpitations, butterflies in the tummy, can't wait to see them next feelings. What turns us on in relationship is about sexual energy, romantic imagery, passion, hope, exhilaration... but while true love has some of this fire in it, true love is much softer, calmer, quieter... It doesn't trigger our fears. When passion is expressed in love it leads to a sense of real contentment as well as satisfaction, a feeling of all being right with the world... and this feeling lasts no matter what else is going down... I don't know if many of us really know the energy of love in this way... the kind of love that has a constancy and consistency to it, is trusting, sure, quiet, peaceful, nurturing, listening...

I often say that love is actually pretty ugly… Love is what brings us out of our deep sleeps to the aid of a sick child, or a frightened neighbour, or to a grandparent's deathbed. Love shows up, no matter what. Love carries us through the bad times… it has substance and strength to it. While it may waiver from time to time, and must be nourished to stay alive, when love is true, pure, unconditional, all it really takes is a small spark to create a roaring fire.

Did you know that your ability to hear is directly connected with your ability to love truly, to ignite that spark into a roaring fire? And that your ability to listen – actively, from the heart – can make or break a relationship?

Global Psychics' experts on love have long held that the way to nourish love is through active listening.  Active listening is a multi-sensory event.  When we are wholly involved in listening, we listen with all of our senses, we notice not only how we feel, but also how our partners feel. We are tuned in, responsive to all the insights coming to us, not just the words. We see the body movements, notice the hesitations, the pregnant pauses, the raw energy at work.

What happens when we're not listening, noticing, loving truly?

In our experience, an inability to listen with our hearts is at the bottom of most breakdowns in relationship.  Here's what we see happening far too often:

·         Folks don't notice that their partners haven't been happy – usually because they are too afraid to probe, too fearful of what they might find out… these folks have lost their relationships before they even started. Without willing communications on both sides, folks get bored, lost in their fantasies, and their relationships usually break down over time… one day you discover you're living with a stranger… Better start listening, and fast!

·         All that the partners hear from the other is filtered through old belief systems, about themselves, about their partners, about what relationship should be, about the world… so that the partners cannot hear or see each other clearly... These people need to let go of their images or desires or beliefs – all the “shoulds” - about who the other is and allow themselves to know their partners in the moment... as if every time they speak it is the first time... fresh, without innuendos or history… so they are listening completely from an open heart...

·         A lot of people read way too much into each other's every action and word, seeking clues to the other's love, reassurance and security... And because they are so focused on trying to interpret what the other is saying in terms of how it impacts them and the relationship, they miss half the conversation. These folks need to work on the fear that has closed down some parts of their hearts... Once they can trust that they're OK, once they can communicate their feelings, they don't have to live in fear of what they might hear, or are not hearing. They can take things at face value without having to look for hidden meanings. And they can take the stress out of the relationship.

·         People allow their images and desires to “infect” relationship by projecting their romantic ideals and expectations on their partners…Not listening, noticing what their partner is really saying or doing... Too often, these people load their partners up with so much energy, so much demand to be a certain way in relationship that their partners have no room to be real… and disappointment invariably ensues.  Reality strikes eventually, and with it comes disillusionment. If only they had listened, if only they had been willing to notice what was really happening.

To create a Space of Love that touches many souls….start by listening, with an open heart.

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